It really is a great game. I have played for around 50 years now. I started out graded as "Beginner". After a number of years I was promoted to "Terrible", and I was pleased. After two new sets of clubs and around 20 years of practice, I found I had progressed to "Mediocre", and I was pleased. Then I stayed away from the game for about 10 years and I found that I had regressed back to "Terrible". Recently, over the last 10 years I have been playing again but it now seems that "Mediocre" is out of my reach. Why, you say? Well, back in the day when I was "Mediocre" my body was considerably more flexible and stronger, which is important. Alas, it doesn't affect my enjoyment of the game. The beauty of the course and the shot by shot, hole by hole challenge keeps me in the game. It really is a wonderful game. However, guys or gals beginning to play later in life must realize that they will never be very good at the game as measured by ball striking, or worse yet, scoring. Play the game with friends and rejoice in the occasional good shot, or sunken putt, and don't focus on scoring.