Even when we had non sailing friends on board, who only cared about a fun day experience and a few drinks, I always had one eye on them and the other on all aspect of sailing the boat safely & efficiently. My wife would start ragging on me as we left our driveway to drive to the marina about I should RELAX, be sociable and DON'T talk about sail trim -- I heard what she said but I didn't pay any attention to the relax part. I'm sailing a 10 ton boat in a crowded harbor and I'm supposed to let the thing sail itself.[/QUOTE]Here's the only one I'll use (I think I coined it): Good sail trim is a full time job.
How many sailors do you see here? That’s my crew last weekend. The captain has a Goat-tee. And the Admiral, and guests have smiles or are taking selfies. We use words like rope, pulleys, left side, right side, and color coded sheets, to get things done. Never talk about sail trim in sailor-eze when this type of guest arrives. They just get the fire extinguisher and PFD seminar. I can’t imagine how a MOB drill would go, so I don’t do it on calm days.I think your wife is right. If it is that taxing on you to take friends (non sailors) don't take them out. By the way if your Cal 30 is 10 tons you must be carrying a lot of GROG. It's a Catalina 30 and I should have said pounds not tons but I do stock a lot of grog. It's not taxing to me but it's more fun for me to take friends that are slightly interested in how a sail boat functions -- let them steer the boat, watch me do some basic sail trim adjustment - but sometimes I get stuck running a tour boat and serving drinks/snacks. If I can get away with it I don't even hoist the sails. I just motor around the harbor.
Oh Boy... Another stop on my Visit SBO Guys tour.I do stock a lot of grog.
This is my approach with non-sailors, too. I may slip up and call them lines instead of ropes occasionally, but I trim the boat from the tiller using their labor. I just say "grab that red rope over there on the left and when I tell you, pull it in and don't wrap it around your hand."How many sailors do you see here? That’s my crew last weekend. The captain has a Goat-tee. And the Admiral, and guests have smiles or are taking selfies. We use words like rope, pulleys, left side, right side, and color coded sheets, to get things done. Never talk about sail trim in sailor-eze when this type of guest arrives. They just get the fire extinguisher and PFD seminar. I can’t imagine how a MOB drill would go, so I don’t do it on calm days.
The trick to relieve any stress is to always have an A-team crew member on board to handle the Epics. That would be the Tarzan-like dude in the back, Carl, we’ve been through all the harrowing lake and sea adventures together. So many stories, so little motivation to share.
We carry copious Grog on board as well. RELAX, no stress...unless the weather forecast changes drastically. Don’t be a DUKW in Missouri.
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We prefer to split the uprights, dependent on traffic. But Red on Right Returning is the mantra."Red right returning" might put you on the shoals in some parts of the world, notably--in most of it.
Well whadda ya know? In the Army, an "Irish pennant" was a stray piece of thread hanging from your uniform, making you look less than 100% squared away.Besides sail tells we also flew "Irish Pennants", scraps of yarn from the shrouds on small boats. An "Irish Pennant" can also refer to bitter ends or almost any piece of lose rigging that flys in the breeze.
I always thought that stemmed from a bit of jealousy, when in the pub the Irish would drink the Royal Navy under the table and go home with the Lasses.Royal Navy's implication that we Irish were not 100 % squared away.
Exactly."Red right returning" might put you on the shoals in some parts of the world, notably--in most of it.
It always works if you are returning to the US. ;-)"Red right returning" might put you on the shoals in some parts of the world, notably--in most of it.