Capta, you say that you want to increase the flow rate...
to the hp pump at the watermaker. Then you should use the 1" outlet, not reduce it. And I think Kloudie is right ... if you are limiting the flow on the Maxi you risk burning it out.
There is a formula to calculate friction loss in a pipe. Hazen-Williams equation is used and you can even find a calculator on the site "engineeringtoolbox.com" if you search for "hazen-williams" or "friction loss formula". You will need to know the variables which include the roughness coefficient (probably something like C=140) and the "hydraulic diameter" I think the links and calculator will walk you thru it. Since you know flow in gpm, then use English units obviously. One caveat is that this equation is typically used for long runs of pipe, in the hundreds of feet. I doubt there is any accuracy to it when you are dealing with just a few feet. This is more like an orifice condition. The Bernoulli Equation for head loss might be useful, but probably not easily applied. I think I would have to go back to college to use it.
It sounds like you are anticipating that friction loss (or head loss) will compensate the flow to coincidentally match the flow of the water-maker, but there is a reason for the outlet to be 1" for the larger pump instead of 1/2" for the smaller pump. I think it is not a good idea to reduce the outlet to 1/2" in an attempt to compensate for the lesser flow demand. You may end up burning out the pump faster than you can accept. If anything, I would keep the outlet supply to the hp pump/watermaker at 1". If the water-maker manufacturer is suggesting that the Maxi is the correct size, I would bet that they mean with the 1" outlet, not a reduced outlet.
But I agree with all, it doesn't seem right to expect this pump to function in the manner intended.