I'll add a couple comments as we have a regular 5 gal tank buried in the aft locker.
I added a vent line using a brass "threaded to barbed" connector (from Lowes). This threads into a thick part of the tank top and has a lock nut on the inside. If you locate near the fill hole, you can get the nut in place with your finger. I use 3/8 gas line for the vent - leading to a J shaped affair that vents I to the top of the motor well. The J is just made from more barbed to threaded brass fittings from Lowes.
I do not use a quick disconnect on the vent. I simply pull it off the upper barbed connector. I have seen tire air filers used for the vent but in both cases the gasoline attacked the rubber inside the valve.
One EXCELLENT thing you can do is to close off the aft locker from the cabin - it is open at the gunwales and when the scupper drain goes through it. I cut polyethylene sheet to fit the gunwales - easy to cut and it squishes into place. I used 5300 to keep it in place and seal it. The result is that no fumes get into the cabin.
I also have a 12 volt bilge blower installed that vents from the bottom of the aft locker to the motor well. To date, I have only used it once when some gas was spilled.
While I like this arrangement it is a PITA to fill the tank! The 5 gal tank is heavy plus I have two Rubbermaid storage containers that need to be removed before the tank. I usually fill the tank in place but for that I need to do acrobatics just to reach it at the bottom of the locker.
We are hard core sailors and use the outboard as little as possible so maybe a smaller tank (or two so we just switch them out) might be an answer.
I do like Sumners permanent tank with "proper" deck filler.
Here is a pic of our tank and gunwales sealing.