This not an unusual issue. In general, the consensus seems to be that 150 and 155 headsails are not the best suit for the casual cruiser. We have suggested (by we, I mean a LOT of folks on this and other sailing forums) that a 130 is the most reasonable (notice, I didn't say "best" ! ) choice for a headsail. It's manageable, goes upwind in a wider variety of wind range, can be held full while reefing the main before even thinking about furling the jib, and special or any long distance downwind work can be done either with the jib on a pole or an AS if you so choose.I absolutely need a new head sail. Has a 150. Sail lift wants me to go with a 130. No idea how to solve this issue.
I think their suggestions are proper.
Good luck, nice looking boat.