Actually, Jim...aeration CAN...
"make a stew of pee and poo smell like roses"...or more accurately, like nothing at all. Your dog poo on a shoe sole analogy doesn't apply. As for your neighbor who installed aquarium bubblers in his tank, the only thing he proved is that there's a lot more engineering to a holding tank aeration system than he realized...because when designed, installed, operated and maintained correctly, aeration DOES completely eliminate holding tank odor. Vent line filters actually increase odor in the tank...then trap it--iow, they create the problem they solve (if only I could have invented something that does that, I'd be a LOT richer today!). You were partly right when you said, "When you flush, the volume of water and waste that moves to the tank forces an equal amount of foul air from the tank." It does displace a volume of air that's equal to the volume of the incoming waste, but it doesn't have to be FOUL air. Once I learned how to prevent it, I never had any odor out the tank vent on any of my own boats, and there are many here who have no odor out their own vents either.I've been doing this for 20 years...I sell nothing, I only advise. So you can either take the position of, "Don't try to teach me anything, my mind is made up and nothing can change it," or you can learn how to eliminate holding tank odor on your own boat. Your choice.