isaksp00-- two things to your two questions.
I tried to keep the PVC legs to about 5 ft so I could use one 10-ft piece for 2 legs. So the ridgepole goes up and down a little. Each end up there has a T fitting. The legs do NOT mate exactly port-to-starboard as there is no PVC fitting to allow that. So the ridgepole is in sections, 3 ft, 4 ft, 6 ft (that one bent or melted like a swayback mule) between the T fittings of the legs.
At each T fitting I either glued in a short bit of ridgepole (to the next leg) or fitted it dry and then drilled straight through both pieces of pipe, the ridgepole and the T fitting. In some places I just made sure the hole was horizontal so that the heads of the bolts (I used 10-24's) and wing nuts on the other side were NOT interfering with the tarp, because they will rip it.
In other places I had to drill straight down into the 1-1/2" pipe (like for a 2x4 vertical leg in back). I drilled the #10 hole through and then enlarged it to take the whole head of the screw and the screwdriver, then bolted it with the screw head and washer INSIDE the pipe (you reach down through the larger top hole with the screwdriver). This keeps a bolt head from ripping the tarp.
Using PVC is CHEAP. I think this whole thing cost me about nine dollars. The bolts at Lowe's were more expensive than all the pipe pieces. (I used a lot of PVC for plumbing inside the boat too-- so long as it does not freeze with water in it, it's ideal. But don't use it for seawater or engine water.)
When I get my new tarps I will wrap the ridgepole with pipe insulation as the bits of carpet and engine-box insulation I used as some points were of little help. ANY bend will stress the tarp. At the front end I have to use a 22-degree elbow to add a forward leg because the tarp bending over the end of the ridgepole gets cut there. The forward leg gets lashed to the stem fitting. Over the cockpit I have two rope 'stays'-- one of these will have to be the vang this year because the forward leg isn't adjustable. I generally tension it like it's a piece of the rigging!
Without a toerail I would locate the legs at key places-- the genny-track car, the stanchions, etc, and lash or tie-wrap them securely so they won't kick out. Use a T-fitting as a 'foot' (it's easier to lash to something). So long as you keep the tarp tight (and visit your poor lonely boat a few times a month for the winter) you'll be surprised how little snow-load problems actually matter.
As a rule try to negotiate with the yard crew to locate your boat nose-in to the prevailing weather in winter-- it makes most of this much easier.