This is an interesting question
... and the answer sort of depends on your boat, what type of sails you have, and whether you have crew or are single handling. Since I mostly sail alone, and mostly use a big 150 genoa, getting the sail tacked quickly and smoothly is important. What I do is begin to turn the boat thru the eye of the wind. Once the wind gets on to the lee side of the genoa, it starts to backwind it and I use that force for a few seconds to help push the bow over quicker. At that moment, I release the lee sheet and begin to winch in the sheet on the new tack. If I do it precisely right, I do not even need to use the sheet winch at all. Practice this a few times and see if it works for you , too.