I convinced my wife to go fishing with me on my sailboat. We motored about 5 miles to the entrance to our inlet, where we trolled for a while. The plan was to sail back in since the wind comes up almost every afternoon. When we started back in the wind was very light, I was sailing downwind on a comfortable broad reach. About 1 mile from the marina, the wind picked up suddeny to about 20+mph. I didn't get a chance to reef the main. I usually drop the main and go in under the head sail alone. I knew that with the full main out, when I turned up wind in order to heave to to drop the main, we were going to get heeled over pretty good, and it was going to scare my wife. That's exacty what happened; the boat was pushed over about as far as I've seen it, but it rounded up into the wind with no problem. Heaved to, dropped the main and came in fine. It did really scare my wife though; not sure how soon I'll get her back on the boat. My dumb question is: Is there a way under such circumstance to be able to drop the main without having to turn across and into a heavy wind?