Apparent weight probably has very little to do with this issue. I think you were correct before when you talked about acceleration forces. Riding a swell is not nearly as hard as hitting a pot hole at 60 mph. On the other hand, I think for small OBs you can easily transfer the shock load to the winches with a ratchet strap or nylon line. I've towed mine from central VA to southern AL and to the NC outerbanks... no problems.Ummm, that’s not correct. While it is true that an Outboard has a density > water and doesn’t float,the water displacement of a partially submerged object still exerts a buoyancy force, which reduces the apparent (aka suspended) weight of of a partially submerged object.
The apparent weight is what the Transom is supporting, where “apparent weight” = ((Mass of Outboard) * gravity) - ((mass of water displaced) * gravity)