This weekend while sailing in very strong wind conditions I noticed that the leech on my main was making a clicking sound and I considered letting the pressure off the topping lift as I do when the main is unreefed. Do most of you keep some pressure on the topping lift when reefed or do you let the sail hold the boom? I've tried letting the pressure off before, but it seems to put a great deal of pressure on the ties around the boom. I have also seen many people using only their jib in high wind. I'm new to sailing but have read that this is not a good idea. Any and all advice will be greatly appreciated.