Personal preference
Jackie, it all boils down to personal preference. If you have sailed a good bit, you should have developed yours. I would make this comparison. A tiller is definately a more intimate sailing experience. You have an instant and immediate and more perceptive feeling of the boat, and for that very reason, it is more trying on you mentally and usually physically as well. A tiller is like having a car with a 5 speed manual transmission. A wheel, if set up properly, on a boat either designed for a wheel, or properly converted, is a much more laid back, less intensive feeling. If you want that constant, intimate contact with every puff and every wave, you cannot beat a tiller. If you prefer an automatic transmission in your car, and a bit of a more relaxed feeling behind the wheel, then the wheel may be for you.I learned to sail of boats with tillers, and my first boat had one. I chartered a 30' Ericson out of Destin, Fl. that had a wheel, and it sailed like no other sailboat with a wheel that I have ever sailed. We were in some pretty good swells, and I could just let go of the wheel and the boat held its course right through them. I was actually very impressed by the fact that I could just rest back against the rear rail and look up at the sail and the boat that was keeping its course. I have not found another wheel steered boat that does that. (not saying that there are not any, I have sailed a fair bit, but not so much in the last 15 years) My 27' Catalina will not hold station like that Ericson did, but it was converted from a tiller to a wheel. Perhaps, one day I will buy an Ericson that holds course like that one did.As a previous post was all about, its all about "what floats your boat"