Ross, your gauge worries me a bit...
It has to mean that the contents of the "main" tank have to be VERY ripe, 'cuz NO air is getting into it via the vent...the "surge tank" blocks air flow in and out of the tank. It also prevents the methane, sulphur dioxide and other toxic flammable gasses generated in an anaerobic environment from escaping passively out the vent--a problem compounded by the amount head pressure needed to push gasses through the contents of the surge tank due to your tank location....the tank has be able to vent passively all the time, not just when flushing the toilet pushes gasses out. So while it may work ok (although I'm not sure anyone within 50' downwind of you when you flush the toilet would agree), I don't think it would pass a CG inspection, 'cuz CG regs require that all waste tanks be vented directly to the outside of the boat, but only your "surge tank" is. I think you'd need to put a second vent line on the holding tank to be in compliance with CG regs.It's certainly a unique approach, though! In nearly 20 years, I've never heard of anyone else doing what you've done. Btw, gray water is "galley, bath and shower water"...toilet waste is "black water."