How warm is warm
Having just put a new conventional bronze stuffing box on my H28.5 (and cutless bearing) on my boat over the winter, I'm still in the process of adjusting it to drip a few drops per minutes while running in gear and none when out of gear or the engine is off. I'm also trying to define "how warm is warm." After running my engine for a while, you ought to be able to touch the metal and rubber part of the gland, with or without the engine running (carefully)and feel how warm it is "comfortably." The shaft will also be about the same temperature to the touch. If you cannot, that is, you would pull your hand away because either or both are too hot, you know you then would have a problem (with the compression nut being too tight, the packing material being the wrong size, the shaft/engine being misaligned, etc.)This is easier to determine than to describe. You'll know it when you feel it.