Tom, it has nothing to do with the vented loop
Only with about 30" of 1.5" hose rising vertically out of your toilet--and yes, there'd be enough left in it to rise to 2-3" in your bowl...that's less than a cupful. And how well lubricated the toilet is--or isn't--has nothing to do with it. The vented loop only provides an air break to prevent water from flowing over the top of it from the thru-hull in the event of a siphon. 2-3" of water in the bottom of your bowl is less than a cupful, so yes...in 30" of 1.5" hose, there can easily be that much left--even after pumping dry--to run back down.A joker valve is a cup-shaped rubber doo-dad in the head discharge fitting that has a slit in the bottom of the cup and "lips" on the outside...it's supposed to prevent backflow. Over time bowl contents forced through it stretches the slit, and after about a year the slit can't close tightly any more. Even a brand new joker valve will allow some seepage, but it's very slow. If you're getting 2-3" of water back into the bowl after every flush, it's WAY past time to replace the joker valve...'cuz the slit isn't closing at all. It should be done every year. I'd also recommend rebuilding the toilet every two years...the joker valve is part of the rebuild kit...and since your head is two years old, you can kill both birds with one stone. The air valve in a vented loop doesn't open and close...it's just a one valve that only allows air in. It shouldn't hiss, so it sounds like it needs cleaning.