How are you measuring hose?
Because hose wall thicknesses vary widely, hose sizes are always the inner diameter...and the "standard" size for all tank (water, fuel and waste) vent hose is 5/8". I'd be surprised if Catalina used any other size.Yes, your tank will fill up if the thru-hull is left open. The pump will not prevent water from being pushed through it into the tank (vane positions have nothing to do with it)...nor will it prevent slow seepage while the boat sits. Which is why the thru-hull should ALWAYS be kept closed except when actually dumping the tank, Seacocks left open when no one is aboard are the #1 cause of boats sinking in their slips...but even while aboard, open head intake and tank discharge seacocks can cause one hell of a mess to clean up. There should also be a vented loop in the line between the pump and thru-hull that's above the waterline at any angle of heel. And if there's only a tee fitting in the pumpout hose, it should be replaced with a y-valve. When the toilet is below the waterline--which yours is--there should also be a vented loop in the head intake (it has to go between the pump and the bowl, not between the thru-hull and the pump)...'cuz when the seacock is open, the only thing preventing water outside the boat from seeking its own level inside the boat via the toilet bowl is the wet/dry valve...and if you're relying on that, you're relying on a valve that has a high failure rate. People have an even higher failure rate about making sure it's left in the dry position. However, while the vented loop will keep water out of the bowl when the boat's at rest, it won't prevent water from being forced past it when the boat's underway on the same tack as the thru-hull...which is why the intake thru-hull should also always be kept closed except when the toilet is actually in use. But since boatbuilders in recent years have put decor ahead of safety and therefore have taken to hiding seacocks in locations that make it so impractical as to be impossible to keep them closed except when actually in use, it may be necessary to install a shutoff valve in the head intake line that IS readily accessible when using the head. And finally, all sanitation hose connections should be double clamped, with the screws on opposite sides of the hose. If you used only one clamp, you need to add another one to every connection.It's a lot of work to do it right, but it's always cheaper and easier to do it right the first time than it is to do it over after a disaster.