Cape Fear region
My husband and I have a sailboat here in the Cape Fear region. This area seems to mostly be host to cruisers passing through. We see lots of sailboats in the marinas, but its true that you just don't see lots of them out on the water with sails up. Some of the problems are that in the summer the ICWW is crowded, the inlets between the waterway and the sounds are narrow and tidal, and the points of ocean access are few (Southport, Carolina Beach, Wrightsboro, Topsail). As for sailing up the Cape Fear river, getting in the mouth is tricky because of shifting shallows, the whole river is very tidal, and because of the international port in Wilmington there are large ships going up and down.I'm not sure how the scene is different in Southport. Maybe it's easier to just head out and mess around in the ocean from there.Hope this helps.