If life's that short...
Maybe you should trade the boat for a motorcycle. Short trips, wind in your hair...and motorcycles can't sink in the garage.I doubt that your problem is caused by a faulty valve...I suspect it's coming back up the macerator thru-hull...'cuz if it were coming through the head intake it would have to be a VERY slow leak not to fill your toilet bowl faster than it can seep past the joker valve, which is unlikely. Plus, it wouldn't only happen in the slip..."ram water" would fill and overflow your bowl while underway.Although head intake seacocks are often in locations that make it very inconvenient to open and close it each time the head is used, there's NO excuse for keeping the macerator seacock open all the time...it's not even legal to have it open inside the "3 mile limit"...and if you're ever boarded & inspected it will cost you big bucks if they find it open. It should be opened only when you're at sea beyond 3 miles, only in preparation to dump the tank, and closed immediately afterward. If "life's too short" for that much effort, you really should consider another recreational outlet. However, to be sure where it's coming from, pump or dump the tank and leave only one seacock open. Wait 24-36 hours, then check the level in the tank. If it's filling the tank in a few days, that's enough time for the level to rise enough in it to know which direction it's coming from. If it does turn out to be the intake, install a vented loop that's at least a foot above the waterline at any angle of heel between the pump and the bowl. However, that won't stop"ram water" from flooding your bowl when you're underway if you leave that seacock open, which means you either HAVE to keep that seacock closed except when you're at anchor or in the slip...or if the seacock is too inconveniently located to make that reasonable even for those for whom life isn't that short, install a shutoff valve in the intake line that is convenient to open and close.