Yikes! I would consider this.....
Before you make any drastic changes, especially to your rudder, keep in mind that the rudder itself isn't the root of your issue. All boats have a tendency to wander while under power, prop wash causes this to happen. I have an 81 H30, and it pulls to port more than it goes backwards when I put it is reverse, no matter what the rudder position is. And when I am in forward, it wanders. My cure, since I have a wheel, is going to be purchasing a friction knob that clamps the steering wheel post to keep the rudder in place. To be honest, sometimes I wish I had my old boat with a tiller back. I thought the wheel would be "stepping up" in the world, but I find sailing with a tiller to be more enjoyable. Which brings me to my next point. I don't mean this as an insult (especially since it is not very often I find my own boat to be balanced!) but you should be able to balance you sails to where the boat will sail straight on it's own. In light to moderate winds anyway. What I have found is when my boat really wants to head up into the wind under sail, I usually have the main timmed too tight. Easing the main usually cures it. Too much sail for the wind conditions can also keep you from getting ideal sail trim. Of course the people I get this info from are experienced and all agree that even if you loose your rudder, you should be able to steer your boat in general directions with just the sails. I have never tried this and I wouldn't make any claims that I can do it, but after putting some thought into it, it makes some sense. To steer into the wind, you can trim the main tight. To steer away from the wind, you could ease the main, and tighten the head sail (I think this would make the boat fall off anyway). I am certainly getting beyond the point of confidently giving you some help so I will get back to the point. One of the neatest gadgets I have seen on tiller steered boats is call a tiller tamer. It is a simple lock knob that mounts to the tiller, and you run a line from one side of the boat, through the knob, to the other side of the boat. This will keep your rudder in place without the expense of an autopilot or windvane. If you already have these, I would still consider it. West Marine, or your local yard can get you one. They are not much at all $30 - $40 tops, and it is much easier to use in cases where you need an extra hand for short time increments. If you are tacking a lot, or just need to leave the tiller for a minute, it's easy to use, and you can leave it set up if you don't have crew needing the cockpit seats. I would get as much advise as possible before changing anything like your rudder. Also, I am assuming the boat doesn't have anything wrong that can be causing you problems. If you haven't yet, throughly inspect the rudder and post as best you can. If the post is bent, or the bearings are worn out, they could be causing your problem. Good luck, I hope I have been helpful. The best advice I can give is keep going on the track your on, get as much advice and different opinions as possible before you do anything that could adversely affect your boat.