Also….
….one could add a snubber line from the anchor rode to a winch. Often, the problem is caused by wind and waves not going in EXACTLY the same direction. I find, by doing this, I can position the boat so it points slightly off the wind, and strait into the waves, or slightly off the wind if I’m sheltered enough so there isn’t any waves.
There are variations of this that work fairly well. On small to midsized boats, try tying a line at least double the length of the boat to the bow eye, and lower the anchor over the side from the cockpit, allowing the boat to drift sideways as you set the anchor. You’ll get a solid hook set for sure! After that, tie the bowline to the anchor rode, and pay out rode till the boat is pointed either into the wind, or into the waves. There’s the added benefit of setting the anchor from the safety on the cockpit, as well as the ability to point the boat slightly away from head-to-wind. Also, one can later use a winch to retrieve the anchor back to the cockpit if it’s a long haul up.
Ferg