If you're determined to do this,
I strongly recommend that you buy a 5-6 gallon model that can be permanently installed and fitted for pumpout...and install it permanently. The 2-3 gallon portables barely hold enough for two people overnight. The 5-6 gallon tanks hold the equivilant number of flushes to a 12-15 gallons holding tank connected to manual marine toilet, but weigh about 50 lbs full...which IMO is a bit much to carry off the boat and up the dock to dump it. Portable tanks are completely sealed except during flushing, which makes 'em anaerobic...and anaerobic means odor that's almost impossible to eliminate. Permanently installed models have to be vented same as any other holding tank, which allows them to relatively aerobic and therefore they can be odor-free.However, if it were my boat, I'd buy a new toilet and hoses and connect the holding tank. Everything is already in place to do that...the intake thru-hull, the tank vent thru-hull and the deck pumpout. Installing a portapotty will mean that you'll have two below-waterline thru-hulls and seacocks to remember to maintain (check regularly to make sure the bedding isn't leaking, lubricate the seacocks to keep them in working order even though you aren't using 'em) and you may have to move the vent thru-hull and deck pumpout fitting if they're too far away from the head.Whichever way you decide to go, read the articles on replacing hoses, installing a head and holding tank, and "holding tank odor--odor out the vent" in the HM forum reference library before you start. And if you ask questions first, you'll save yourself a lot of unnecessary effort. Plumbing is a "guy thing?" That's certainly news to me! Your wife expects to use whatever you install...therefore, she should at least help select it. And if she also helps you to install it, she'll have a much better understanding of how it works. Since she's also likely to be the one who has to keep it clean and odor-free, she should read some of the articles in HM forum library too...so that she knows what kinds of cleaning products should and should not be used in any marine sanitation system.