Tiller is sweet
I prefer a tiller. On our 1976 O'Day 25 I recently replaced the old straight ash (original equipment) knee-banger with a new tiller that arc's up. It is one that BoatUS sells for the Catalina 25. It's high enough so that it doesn't bang you in the knees at all.I have a tiller extension and I use it when the conditions warrant. Otherwise I like the feel it gives. When the boat is sailing near perfect on a particular point of sail the water eddying off of the hull against the rudder makes the tiller vibrate, that's when I look at my speed indicator and smile inwardly that all is right with the world. The boat is doing what it was designed to do. A very satisfying feeling.Another "trick" I use quite often is to steer with the tiller between my knees. As I'm heading back in and coiling the lines, this method leaves my hands free to do the work. Also helps pass the time when sailing on the "iron jenny".As to wheels, they are nice, but I don't feel that I have the real "feel" of the boat. First off, how many turns is it to either block? Where is amid-ships? Has anyone out there re-located their kingpin since their steering cables have stretched/changed? Also, I don't feel as if the wheel truley transmits what's going on with the boat, but it is a personal preferance.Also, when is the last time you were able to easily get around the wheel on a 25 - 35 footer without squeezing through, around or past something?As to your sailing school. Was it a racing or cruising focused school? Sounds more like a sailing school where they have an agenda and are going to follow it. Did they ask you at all what your goals for the sailing school were? I've been through racing schools and all we ever did was sail in the toughest conditions we could find and really learn to work the gear. Totally uncomfortable sailing, but boy you would be amazed with what a boat will do.Sounds to me like the joy of casual sailing (about 20 minutes of sail chores) per outing, in my case usually a 3 to 4 hour leisurly sail around Boston Harbor Islands, was missed somewhere along the line. Hauling sails, trimming sails etc. is something that you choose to do out of comfort. With a roller furled headsail, raising and dousing the main are our only "chores" and my 11 year-old son is more than able to do it alone. For me I enjoy it, it also keeps me in touch with the condition/age of my gear.So, please don't let one experience with a sailing school set your opinion about things, by all means, you will find as many different views on sailing out there as there are folks who call themselves sailors. For us, it is a leisurely pastime that allows us to get "away from it all" without spending a fortune or having to travel huge distances by car.Fair winds and pleaseant anchorages,Geofs/v Day-O