I've heard that different dinghy's may tow worse than others, but I don't have experience with poorly towable dinghy's. I guess some like to flip over, not a good thing. I currently have two dinghys, a hard bottom inflatable that tows fine, and a hard dinghy that also tows fine...Thank you dlochner for your sharing of knowledge. Dave here's another question then. Do certain dinghys tow better behind the boat than others? Soft vs. hard hulls. one brand vs. another? Also someone said the weight is not really an issue on a 42' boat. I'm not dead set on davits just on the aquisition of knowledge.
I wouldn't over-think this one too much. Just figure out what you like/need for a dinghy and pick one up. On your boat, you'd need one mighty heavy dinghy to worry much about the weight on davits. Just a FYI - crossing oceans I would not use davits in any case. It's not where you want your dinghy, in my opinion. Mine gets strapped to the foredeck. I used to have one I could deflate and store in an locker. That was very cool! I'd do the same now, but I own the two I have and it's not worth the trouble to change...
Let me give you my current thought process on my dinghy selection: I own two:
1) a hard dinghy - a wonderful sailing dinghy that rows great, sails and can take a small motor. Works with two people and stuff well, three people gets tight and better not have much wave action..
2) A hard bottom inflatable, carries a 9.9 Honda outboard, rows like crap, doesn't sail is big and bulky, weights a lot. But it carries 4 people and gear very well. I'm not sure you might even get 6 people in it in a pinch.
I'm about to head to Europe. Which dinghy should I bring? Can't take both. I love the hard dinghy and much prefer rowing to running a motor, but, I'm bringing three crew. So I'll really need a way to carry four people and gear efficiently. The hard bottom inflatable wins... It's the best option for this trip. Covers more of what I need even though it's not my "favorite".
Dinghy selection - What do you need? That answers the question. Problem - you don't know what you need yet. You just got the boat, don't have a ton of experience, hard to decide.... My suggestion: Get the cheapest available dinghy that looks like it will work for the next year or two that will nicely carry you, your wife and gear. If you think you'll have more folks joining often, get one big enough for your common usage. I'd likely buy second hand and after a year sell it if I then wanted another one.
Your boat, your choice...
dj
p.s. sorry - different Dave....