Hello everyone. I've spent a lot of time reading posts on this website in hopes of being prepared. I am brand new to sailing. My wife and I have taken 2 lessons (without wind, unfortunately) on a 22' O'day then we purchased a 1988 Beneteau First 285. We love the boat and popped our sailing cherry in some 25ish knot winds. It scared the crap out of my wife and got me hooked. That same night we met an experienced sailor that took us out for a moonlight sail. This is better than I ever imagined. I've been out (in wind) a total of 3 times, and this 28' tiller steered beast is a lot of boat for me. Anyway, is there any advise that anyone would like to offer?