I'm futzing around with having a 2nd mainsail set of reefing points put in my sail this coming winter. In the graphic, I'm thinking somewhere along the red line. I would like to be able to sail in stronger winds and with the standard reefing point, sometimes I feel uncomfortable when a gust hits the boat and knocks me over to the point where I'm feeling I might go "over" if I don't immediately dump the wind with my mainsail sheet.
I'm not looking for speed in gusting conditions as much as a relaxing trip on my lake. I'm wondering if anyone else has tried a 2nd reefing point and if so, how does it work out for you.