There IS a simple way
There is a line on my main which solves this problem quite nicely. If my brain was a wee bit less addled I might be able to remember what it's called. It will come back to me some day.It is a piece of small stuff running up the luff starting at the tack and running up about 3 feet or so. It is woven throuigh pairs of grommets at each slide point. I think it involves either two or three slides. IT is tied off at it's top so that when the sail is set snug the line is tight. When the halyard is freed it the line goes slack, allowing the slides to stack up and the tack to pull down to the the horn freely. My original JSI sail had one and I had Quantum duplicate it at both the first and second reef points on the new main.The system works well. I have two reefing lines for each reef point, one for each tack, one for each clew, all run back to the cockpit.. To reef I head up just off the wind, lock the wheel, ease out the main sheet, ease the halyard as I haul in the tack reef line, haul it tight, winch out the clew reef line, winch up the halyard, then fine tune. It has never taken more than 2 minutes start to finish. I occasionaly have my wife steer, but it usualy works better if I lock the wheel. I'm not sure what have to complain about now that I'll have my new wheel pilot to do the dirty work.If my brain ever comes back to life I'll post the name of the line, or maybe someone can help me here?