Raritan Bay ???
One of the key factors is .....where do you intend to sail, that you need a dink? I dont know where Raritan Bay is and how rough it gets, but.........it is never a good idea to tow a dink in open water if thats what you intend to do. If in a major body of water, and you are towing, you had better have a very quick system of getting boat and motor on board if need be. Also, stability plays a MAJOR role if again, in open water. To find out for sure, you will definately have to get on someone elses boat that has a hard dink and try getting in and out of a hard dink in only 1-2 foot chops. I dont mean make it a practice try, I mean get in the dink, motor it away and then try tieing it back up and getting back on board. There is nothing more stabile than an inflatible, not even a close second. And the best inflatible is an RIB.By the way, women dont usually step in and out of things like men do. Men 'make a committment' and keep moving. Women tend to test the stability, step on the gunnel, then try to ease their way onto the dink. THAT JUST DONT WORK. Again , think stability.A dink is not cheap, and the wrong dink can be an expensive mistake.This is a good opportunity for me to get on my soapbox, and push for more people on here to fill out their 'profile'. Its nice to see what and where people sail. That lends more credence to their posts and replies. Different size boats and different sailing areas have totally different concerns. Thats not to say that everyones reply is not valid, I'm not trying to start anything going in that direction. All I'm trying to say is that each area has its own set of unique problems. Also, Phil spends a lot of time trying to make this a very informative site, so lets use these features. Phil also spends a lot of time removing some of my replies, cant blame him for that though.IMHO Tony BP.S. After you get this resovlved in your mind, your next question should be "What size O/B?" and that will be another interesting thread.