I'd consider a Hunter
just for the rig. I like the large main/small jib idea. I have a 40' Beneteau now, a masthead sloop with a 155 genny, and believe me, after you tack that puppy four or five times going upwind, it get old real fast. I've heard that the Hunter has a thinner hull, but if all you want is to coastal and maybe the Caribbean, so what? BTW, a Hunter 49 recently completed a mostly solo circumnavigation with no problems, so... If you're not going blue-water, a large aft cabin would be very nice, too.