This should be interesting!
While harsh in tone, Stu is right. I write to the process not the decision. Make your search/selection your hobby for this season. I was boatless for the last 20 years. Went out on a few day charter last summer with the wife and then went out again a few weeks later with the whole family. Got the "bug" again and spent all Fall and into Winter reading about and looking at boats. My wife and I always went together when we vistied any broker and I think if I hadn't listened to my wife, we would have ended up with the boat I "wanted" rather than the "best" boat for us. We made lists of features we thought would be of value, only to get frustrated when we realized that everything is a compromise. Then we concentrated on "us" and why we wanted a boat and what we were going to do with it. We kept at the search and after starting out running around in big circles mentally, we ended up circling around one boat. So, what boat did we get? It doesn't matter. The best feature of our boat? It has the ability to provide the perfect opportunity for the two of us to waste time together , while we try to figure out the solution for all the world's problems, starting with our two teenage children. PS, OK, Stu said it better.