I found this pic of another 49 and it's nothing like my setup. what are the parts in seeing here, how does it go together?
This is more or less correct
They are missing the flat washer that goes on top of the upper drag link end.below the nut.
There must also be a flat washer at the bottom underneath the arm.
You must have these large tube spacers. They spread the huge load out over the surface of the arm.
I am not surprised that your current setup mangled the aluminum hole in the arm. Definitely not correct.
Also, I believe the bolt in this photo is installed upside down
To my recollection, it’s a long shoulder boat, with relatively short thread. You don’t want the thread at the aluminum end.
I’ve had mine apart many times, and always recall the nut at the top.
So,, you need an accurate hole in the arm just the size of the bolt OD plus 1 RCH.
Then, the stainless bushings stack up, as shown in the photo.
There are 2 SS bushings. Note that the larger bushing is flat on the bottom, and beveled on the top. I believe the OD is approx 1”
You MUST use a nylock nut on the bolt.
There must be flat washers :
Between the nylock & the drag link top
Underneath the arm between the surface & bolt head
Now, once you have all of this sorted out, go to the Mamba bevel gear heads that connect the wheels to the drag links. These are mounted with 4 bolts to the platform. I’m going to bet they are loose, and the gear units are sliding around when steering. These must be checked seasonally to ensure all is tight.
Here is my next reccomendation
The mamba steering is amazing, and if aligned properly will give you fingertip steering at each helm
Before connecting the drag links back up, walk through the system looking for friction points
Put grease on the rudder stock where it meets the upper bearing.
Test each component for freeness, and lightly grease the u joints.
Move the rudder by hand, and see how it feels.
rotate each steering wheel without the drag link re-attached. There should be zero friction
Then, slowly build up the system, checking for friction and alignment as you go. This is a very high stress part of the boat’s mechanics, and any friction will result in worn out parts
Hope this was helpful