In the same boat
Like you, I had no experience with diesels before we bought an H27 (82) 2-1/2 years ago. Advice from various sources was much the same as you have received here. When in the clear, I try to keep it at 3000, it is hull speed. Pushing it harder does, as one person suggested, seem to waste fuel. Of course when you use about 10 gallons a year, so what? I would not be concerned to push harder if conditions made that necessary. Do realize, however, that this engine (depending on your boat) is not going to allow you a lot of options in boat handling so plan ahead and practice so you know the limitations.Andy"Baroque"