learning
Sailing for fun has made sailing much more complicated than it used to be. 200 years ago you could get knocked on the head on a fri night and wake up Sat. morning setting the top sail on a friggate. You learned by doing, and these people weren't rocket scientists, heck most didn't even know what a rocket was. (the military did have rockets then). Just take it easy, don't jump in over your head, go out in light winds first. You'll make some mistakes, but will learn from them. There are a lot of good books out there, you can learn the terms and get a good knowledge base from the books. Every boat is different and every skipper runs his boat differently. Develope your own style. To sail well takes tiller time, so just get out there. Most mistakes only cost some pride, some cost $$. Get a good chart, compass, and a pencil and use them. Stay with in your abilities and have fun. Racing can be fun, but is much more stressful, and requires a much more intence knowledge of sailing. If you want to race start in a smaller boat and get used to it before racing your Mac, or race as crew on some-one elses boat till you get all the rules and tactics down first. Crewing is a good way to learn sailing too. But sailing for fun, just point the boat as close to where you want to go a you can, and mess around with the sails till it feels right. The rest will come.