Brian, Thanks for your reply.
Reaching and using the main to blanket the jib seems pretty good. Paying off to come to a broad reach requires timing to let out the jib, and turn the boat. Because of our local weather pattern it is often running down with the waves on the stern quarter. It most certainly feels like surfing. It's funny that I've done it so many times, but sitting here at the computer, it's hard to analyze. I think I usually turn at the top of the wave, and as it passes me it rolls under and I'm in line for the next wave. If it feels right, I turn the boat down the wave face and just surf dowm. Surfing a 5-8 foot groundswell is fun and exciting. When the swell is larger it starts getting a bit scarry to me. At some point I'm concerned with slowing the boat down. This is where furling should have been done earlier, but if I'm caught up, it gets difficult. Also, turning down to furl eats up a lot of searoom. With big wind or waves on the coast, that can be a problem. Think lee shore.
Going up-wind, there seems to be disadvantages to heading into the wind to furl. The jib flails around with great power, and the boat moves all over. It takes a lot of muscle to bring the sail in.
So that's why I'm looking for advice. I've found a few things: My furling line passes through a line stopper after the turning block. If I'm pulling it at any sort of angle it adds a lot of friction. Also, if I leave the line stopper lever down, it also adds a degree of friction. Another thing I have noticed is that going into the wind, I can de-power the jib, so that it is luffing just a bit, which seems to allow me to furl easier. Have any of you noticed this? I'm hesitant to use the winch (much less the electric halyard winch) for furling because of the chance of "bird cageing" the forestay.
So I'm looking for some advice, opinions and information here. How do you furl your jib in heavy weather? Do you have any tricks that work for you? How about when you are flying just the jib? Thank you for sharing your thoughts.