I've installed several Multiplus's and a Magnum unit. You didn't state which Magnum you have, nor which Victron you intend.
But in general, they are almost identical wrt wiring. If you have any spare length on your wires now, then you should have no problem. This all depends on your current and intended models, and the mounting orientations you have/intend.
It's not rocket science - the AC and DC wires just swap from one's terminals to the other's equivalent terminals. If you have a bit of extra wiring of each now, then any small changes in terminal orientation will be easy to accommodate.
I'd say a swap out would take between 0.5-2hrs depending on if you need to drill new mounting holes or run new wires. I can't image what took 3 days, unless you were adding entire new circuits, panel breakers, and the like that required cutting holes, enlarging panels, running wires through conduits, etc.
As other's state, you cannot program the Multiplus over bluetooth regardless if it has the bluetooth dongle on it. It really is the downside of Victron here, as the cumbersomeness of the MK3-USB drives you to purchase additional expensive gear just to program and control it conveniently. They used to sell a $250 remote panel called the "Blue Power Control" that was brilliant in that it contained all the functionality of the Mk3-USB in a remote display. They replaced it with the $600 "Color Control Panel", that removed all of the previous programming and control functionality, but had a nice color display instead of the previous B&W one. Now to get the same convenient control back in a remote display, you need to buy an even more expensive $1000 Cerbo and display.
As someone who just has a Multiplus and no other Victron gear, having to spend another $1000 just to remotely program the unit pisses me off. Luckily, I was able to grab a Blue Power Controller as they were selling off their stock.
Mark
Edit: I just reread your post and see that the 3 day install wasn't for the Magnum, but was the estimate to install the Victron. Completely unreasonable. If you have an equivalent size inverter/charger already installed (but you haven't confirmed this yet), the install should take a day at most. Likely an hour.