Ross...we are the exception to the rule..
When sailing, my wife is at the helm while I do the sail adjustments. It keeps her happy and not get seasick.When anchoring, same thing...I am at the bow while she does all the helm's work.We do mostly anchoring...the few time we go to Catalina Island and we have to grab a mooring is the few times that I am at the helm while she picks up the stick. Then I run forward to help her. This is by her request because she doesn't feel as comfortable handling the boat in close quarters.I have found that if I let her have the first choice of what she wants to do in the boat, it makes for a better sailing experience for both of us.abe