You are trying to make work for me with all these ideas. If I sailed on San Franciso Bay or where you do then it might be a priority. I'd bet I haven't reefed three times in the twelve years that I have owned the boat. And not once between Lake Erie and Tampa.
I cannot remember the standard rigging ever being a problem. When I hoist the main I just pull the reefing lines out the side so they are off the cam cleat. All my lines are at the mast. Maybe it is more of a problem if you are in the cockpit where you can't release a snag or you forget to "uncleat".
When I reef I drop the main, hook the luff cringle on the horn, pull the reef line snug, and done. Well except for a couple of sail ties around the boom. I have never done it in a big blow though. Never had to use a winch.
I think, for now, the mod will be new 3/8" green and red Samson lines and a slight bevel on the holes.