As far as packing size, yours is probably 3/16 based on your shaft being 1'' and on the generally accepted measures:
- 1/4" packing on plastic stuffing boxes
- 3/16" on bronze stuffing boxes with 1" shaft
- 5/16" on bronze stuffing boxes with 1 1/4" shaft
If you use 1/4 inch in a bronze packing gland with 1'' shaft, chances are you are not going to be able to put more than 2 strips of packing in the gland. The proper way is 3 strips cut at 45 degrees and installed 120 degrees from one another. that insures proper sealing.
As for the hose, if you took the gland to WM, for sure you can now remove the old hose and measure its length, I.D. and O.D. before you order. Good luck