Is the water clean or dirty?
If it's clean, what's filling your bowl is flush water via the intake, not waste backup via the discharge. If it's filling up regardless of whether the wet/dry valve is in the wet or dry position, the cam (little "gate" that the lever swings to block or unblock the flow of flush water) has failed and needs to be replaced.To be sure, close the intake seacock..pump till you've cleared all the water in the intake line out of it. Then pour some water in the bowl and flush. If it all goes out and doesn't come back into the bowl, you've confirmed the problem.If water still fills the bowl again after you stop pumping, then it is backing up. I suspect you just aren't pumping long enough in the dry mode to move it all the way to the tank--which, if the tank more than about 4' from the toilet, may be impossible with a rise of 2'. In that case, a vented loop in the head discharge line immediately after the toilet is the solution. It should be at least 6-8" above the top of the top of the tank, so that you'll only have to pump long enough in the dry mode to move the bowl contents over the top of it...gravity will get it the rest of the way to the tank.And you also need a second vented loop in the intake--between the pump and the bowl (replace the short piece of hose between the top of the pump and the back of the bowl to install it)--to prevent water from filling the bowl if the pump is left in the wet mode. This one should be at least 6-8" above the waterline at any angle of heel.