Hey, Hugh....
The whole 'wife (female, guest, daughter, date or whatever) vs. head smell issue appears frequently in the archives. And, of course, Peggy is ALWAYS right. Plus, being female gives her the trump card regarding head smell issues. That, and, of course, her unparalleled amount of techical expertise.But I have a fairly stupid question, and a fairly simple answer. And, forgive me if this is something you've already tried. First, the question: is your boat equipped with a manual holding tank diaphram-type pump that is routed to a through hull discharge, with a diverter valve, and a ball or gate valve at the thru-hull fitting, in addition to a deck-mounted pump-out fitting? That's the way my boat is set up, and is fairly standard. Stupid question, I know. I said that.Fairly simple answer: Instead of doing any heavy-duty plumbing changes, what I did before I switched over to the fresh water system, was to flush the toilet with a liberal amount of fresh water, then, pump out the tank. Then partially fill it with fresh water via the deck fitting; pump it out again. Another fresh water rinse, but this time with some bleach, and a little detergent. Pump it out again. You get the picture.At this point, the tank is fairly clean, and if you partially fill the tank with fresh water again, and add some bleach or vinegar (Never both, of course) then you can flush the lines that you DON'T routinely use with fresh water. In my case, I used the manual holding tank pump, with some vinegar (not bleach, as it goes into the Bay) and flushed the lines from the tank to the thru-hull. Then, I closed the thru-hull, repositioned the diverter valve, and had those lines permanently devoid of any smelly stuff.Now, I pump-out exclusively via the deck fitting, and after pumping out, spray some fresh water down through the deck fitting, through the hose, and into the tank to remove any residual waste. Flushing out the tank and clearing the hoses that you don't want to use takes 30 minutes or so. Clearing the hose from the deck fitting to the tank after pumping out only takes 30 seconds. If the lines to the holding tank are not full of residual waste it should inhibit 'saturation' of the hoses with waste, and eliminate any funky smells.The 'fresh water flush' technique before you leave the boat will clear the line from the toilet to the tank, and should eliminate head odors completely. Apparently, I'm lucky just to be alive with my permanent fresh-water flush hooked up as it is, so I think that the simpler methods suggested in the earlier posts might be a better idea. Of course, I'm sticking with the setup that I have. Otherwise, I might have to endure the female head odor issue again at close quarters.Have fun. Good luck - RJ