Hooboy. Ok...one at a time...
Jim...if your toilet is a Jabsco, I suspect the wet/dry valve has failed...a VERY common problem in Jabsco manual toilets made in the last 5-6 years. That valve is actually just a flimsy little "gate" that the lever swings to either block or unblock the flow of flush water. Due to either a design or tooling problem, it's defective...it hangs, usually in the "dry" mode...and when it hangs it creates backpressure that can easily be mistaken for a clog downstream. Jiggling the wet/dry lever MIGHT free it, but only temporarily...the only real cure is a new wet/dry valve assembly...or a new toilet that's a bit more durable. While you have it apart would also be a good time to lubricate it.Dale...your problem is a blocked tank vent. When air in the tank displaced by incoming waste can't get out the vent, the tank becomes pressurized...creating backpressure that prevents waste from going into it. A blocked tank vent also doesn't allow any air in during pumpout to replace contents as they're pulled out...so the pumpout pulls a vacuum as soon as what little air is in the tank is exhausted, preventing any more from being pumped out. Don't use your toilet or attempt to pump out again until you've cleared the blockage...the two most likely places are the vent thru-hull and the connection on the tank. After you get it open, you'll be able to move the bowl contents all the way to the tank if you pump long enough--and without filling up your tank with flush water...'cuz any toilet that's working anywhere near factory specs can move waste/water at least 6' UPHILL in the dry mode. As for the function of a joker valve...the best it can do--IF it's not so worn out that the slit has become just an open hole (joker valves should be replaced at least every two years)--is reduce backflow to slow seepage. Enough backpressure from a blocked tank vent can create an eruption through the toilet that can turn one inside out...if the tank doesn't burst first.David, I suspect you also have a blocked tank vent. It's also highly likely that your toilet is just worn out...30 years is at least twice the average lifespan of that toilet. If it's never even been rebuilt, I'm amazed it still works at all. I strongly recommend that all three of you check out the link below...'cuz the solutions to all of your problems and how to prevent 'em--and most others too--is there.