Here's My Engine Maintenance
I'm sure Gordon or someone more experienced will also reply, but I'll give your questions a shot:1. I believe that your engine has a maximum speed of around 3400 rpm. 80% of that is the maximum that you should cruise at for extended periods. That's about 2850, or so.2. Idling a diesel engine, like those on your boat is not ideal, even for battery charging. Although occassionally doing so will do no damage, the engine will "carbon up" more and is best run under load, say when cruising. So if you need to charge when on the hook, do so, but keep it at a minimum. Get a decent charger for charging at the dock, and/or upgrade your alternator for quicker charging when away.3. You can run your diesel all day, if needed, when cruising. In fact, running it for longer periods is better for the engine than short runs, where it never fully warms up. With proper maintenance, oil changes, filter changes, etc., it should last 10,000 hours. Of course don't use it if you are heeled excessively. Probably not at more than 20 degrees, definately not more than 30 degrees. (But then, Why would you, if heeled, there must be wind!)4. Additives are controversial. Clean fuel in the first place, is the "best additive". Your first filter, probably Racor, should also have a water extractor, so you shouldn't need any "gasline antifreeze" type of additive. Of course, also check the O-ring on your fill tube at the deck for, (as Gordon has told us!) it is the most common place for water to enter the system. Many people add a biocide to their tanks. If so, only add recommended amount. If you keep the water out, it isn't necessary, since the algae grows in the water, not the diesel fuel. No other additive are needed nor desirable.5. The shop manual from Yanmar is a valuble resource. Lots of info, and you can order it from Torreson's, that hosts this thread. The Seloc manual, available from bookstores, including Amazon.com (and the HOW Store?) is useful, but not as engine specific as the Yanmar manual.6. NO! A diesel is stopped by cutting off the fuel supply. That's what pulling that knob at the engine panel does. So increasing RPM right before cutting off the fuel is counterproductive. It doesn't accomplish anything.There, you have my answers, and I'll await for any fine tuning (or outright rejection by Gordon and other's more experienced than I am).