I've done this!
Kathy,My guess is that you're at Winters or Riverside Marina. Our boat is in Somers Point and I have made that trip a few times. Figure, it is an overnighter to Cape May. [stay at Canyon Club if you can get a transient slip]. It is a 7 hour sail or motor to Ocean City from there. Barnegat inlet / bay is a long 3rd day maybe longer. This time of year the ocean can be rough, so running from Cape May to Barnegat in one long shot is not recommended for the faint hearted.Ok. The Deaware River itself is easy if you play the tide. But be careful of partially submerged debris, logs, barrels etc. It is well marked though. The stretch around Salem in Delaware Bay has shoals, so follow the charts carefully. I'd stay just outside of the shipping channel favoring the Delaware side. If the weather is foggy or there are rough seas, I'd forego travellling on the bay until conditions get better. There are some rivers you can duck into on the Delaware side as I recall and drop the hook. Whatever you do, Do not anchor near the the shipping lanes traffic is usually very heavy . .big swells and wakes too.From Cape May it's North up the coast. This time of year I would stay over night in Ocean City or Somers Point though.I can recommend soe marinas there if yiou like. Then up to Barnegat . .probably a 12-14 hour run.Fred MillerS/V M- SquaredFeel free to e-mail me if you need more info.