Joker valve has nothing to do with any of it
The first thing you need to understand is that a marine toilet has nothing in common with a household toilet except the bowl and . Household toilets last for decades with -0- maintenance because they have no moving parts...marine toilets are pumps with parts in 'em that wear out and require replacement every few years--more often if the pump isn't kept well lubricated--and one or two parts that should be replaced at least every other year if not annually. Your toilet is screeching because it desperately needs lubrication...what you're hearing is sound of the rubber seals and o-rings in the pump scraping against the inside of the pump cylinder. All toilets leave the factory leave the factory slathered with a thick synthetic teflon grease that lasts about a year, maybe two, depending upon how much use the toilets gets...but it doesn't last forever. The source of the water in the bowl while heeled and even in the slip is the head intake (the joker valve, btw, is in the head discharge fitting). There's a lever on the pump that switches from "wet" to "dry"...in the wet mode, the toilet can pull in flush water through the intake...the dry mode blocks the flow of flush water. Because your toilet is below the boat's waterline, when it's in the wet mode, there's nothing to prevent water outside the boat from seeking its own level inside the boat (rising in the bowl) while sitting, or water from being pushed up the intake hose into the bowl while underway. If the bowl fills in the dry mode, it means that the wet/dry valve (the little "gate" inside the pump that swings to open or block the flow of flush water)is failing--a VERY common problem in Jabsco toilets made in the last 5 years--and must be replaced. But since relying on a wet/dry valve--and remembering to always leave it in the dry position--to keep water outside the boat from seeking its own level inside the boat, I strongly recommend that you install a vented loop in the head intake. It won't prevent water from being forced up the head intake while underway, but it will prevent water from rising in the bowl while the boat is sitting and even possibly sinking your boat in the slip while no one is aboard to notice that the bowl is overflowing.Several things can cause waste to back up into the bowl: a blocked tank vent can pressurize the tank, creating backpressure that prevents waste from going into it...sea water mineral buildup in the head discharge hose can reduce the diameter of it, restricting the flow of waste through it...or if there's even a slight uphill run in the discharge hose, anything left in the hose due to incomplete flushing will run back downhill into the bowl. And while a brand new joker valve can block it completely for the first dozen or so flushes, waste--even just urine and flush water--going through it gradually stretches the slit, preventing it from blocking slow seepage. It'll block a real flood--which is all it's ever supposed to do--until it becomes so worn that the slit is no longer a slit but an open hole, but a joker valve can't block slow seepage and isn't supposed to. So the joker valve isn't responsible for ANY of your problems. What is causing all of them is a lack of knowledge about how a manual marine toilet works and what it needs, resulting in a lack of maintenance and lubrication...incomplete flushing and possible lack of any understanding of how to use the wet/dry function--and MAYBE a failing wet/dry valve...a 50-50 chance that your holding tank vent may be blocked, or at least partially blocked. The link to my book that explains all this in much more detail--and how to prevent problems as well as cure 'em (prevention is SOOOO much easier)) is below.