You make some good points. I'm actually leaning toward the topping lift for some perhaps quirky reasoning...I like 'traditional' or 'classic' solutions in general, and topping lift wins that category in my mind. I too was concerned about 'falling' or otherwise putting my weight on the boom and damaging the boomkicker. At dock I would still use the back stay pig-tail to support and center the boom, so a wash on that one. The topping lift would be a bit cheaper, but not by much. I'm not thrilled about extra complexity at the boom-mast vs a line well out of the way with the topping lift. On bigger boats (not sure how this benefits me) the boom-topping lift can be used as a hoist, my dock mate used his boom to pull his motor out and swing it over to the dock.
So I've not decided yet but I'm giving the topping lift a slight edge so far, although this seems the opposite of progress.
Perhaps I've inherited my way of thinking when it comes to sailboat hardware from the eight years that I trailered my boat when I first bought it. I wanted things fast and easy and was ready to adopt the KISS approach. I know for a fact that if I was still trailering today I wouldn't have a CDI roller furler right now but I was willing to make concessions when I found out that I could raise my mast with a Gin Pole with the furler connected without any help. Being a Geezer, I feel that the extra time and effort that goes into mast raising/lowering is well worth it when you consider the ease and safety that a furler can provide.
With this said, I draw the line when it comes to topping lifts verses boom kickers for the reasons that I just gave.
I have decided to install a home built boom brake. In fact I just ordered a mountain climber's Black Diamond Super 8 last night on line. I have the rope and sheaves needed to install it on my boat. A boom brake isn't really a necessity that needs to be installed after mast raising like a boom kicker. It can be rigged anytime at my leisure.
Don't let me talk you out of getting a boom kicker Ken.
If I really wanted a boom kicker I would buy one, but I guarantee you that I would think of a way to be able to connect and disconnect it using press button quick pins or something of that nature.
I watch Wayne connecting and disconnecting his every year and he does a lot of swearing and cursing, not just at the boom kicker but everything that has to do with rigging and unrigging his boat twice a year. He's getting to a point where he wants to get rid of the 22 and buy something smaller but if you think about it, a 22 is a small boat. It's just those extra goodies that we add to them that makes life miserable when we have to rig and unrig them, but it doesn't have to be that way though.
I'm using quick release shackles on my mainsheet blocks and boom vang, and a press button quick pin for my furler drum, plus a Johnson Handy-Lock on my back stay.
Last Thursday it took me approximately 20 minutes to take my mast down at the dock. I had taken the Gennie off the furler luff and removed the boom with sail and cover attached and stowed it in the cabin the previous day when I heard about Irene. I got my boat home and I was completely exhausted at the end of the day but at my age, it goes with the territory.
