ah, but....
...I would be remiss were I not to point out that I have no trouble doublehanding my 40+' sloop, thanks to the furling main. justin's point is well taken, however, and not too many years ago rigs had to be split (usually either as a ketch or a cutter) on boats larger than 12 meters if they were to be managable by a smaller crew. when i was in my 30s i used to campaign a 37-foot sloop in offshore races, and there was no way my 5'3" wife and i could manage that boat alone. we were crew dependant. period. however, in the past year the two of us, now both in our forties, put thousands of sailing miles on our 410 without needing to rely on winch monkeys or foredeck apes. just the two of us. it's heaven. we can only do this because of a new technology, the furling main. (not to mention a few slightly older technologies, like two-speed self-tailing winches. but i digress.) the choice for me was not between big boat/small boat, but rather between sloop rig or split rig. does my furling mast add windage and weight aloft? you bet, but not anything along the lines of adding a mizzen mast or staysail rigging. is it possible that furling may become difficult if the system breaks down? perhaps; however, i should point out that in over 100 days of sailing, only once have we had to leave the cockpit in order to furl OR STRIKE the main. i truly feel that it is a safer system, just as it is more safe to go to sea in a larger boat. they don't call them "small craft advisories" for nothing.