Just Watch Your Head
Mark,I have been on several boats where the someone handled the boom (as not to drop it into the cockpit or on someone's head) when the main was being lowered. Once the boom was down, the main halyard was disconnected from the headboard on the main and connected to a loop tied into the end of the boom. Then, all you have to do is pull on the main halyard, lifting the boom. Pretty simple... The topping lift, when attached, can also be used to shape the main in really light air. Basically it takes the weight of the boom off the sail and allows the main to twist by loosening the leech when the wind is really light. There is an entire science to twist and trim, others will have to help you out there.Regards,Clayton