A couple of comments
a) get a good basic primer on sailing. "Sailing for Dummies" is a good basic reference. I also like "Sailing Fundamentals" by Gary Jobson, which they used for the ASA Basic Keelboat certification course back when I took it. You can find both at amazon.com or any of the majoer booksellers. Here are a couple of links:http://www.amazon.com/Sailing-Dummies-Sports-Hobbies/dp/0471791431/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/103-0921384-2135064?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1186809007&sr=1-1http://www.amazon.com/Sailing-Fundamentals-Gary-Jobson/dp/0743273087/ref=pd_sim_b_3/103-0921384-2135064?ie=UTF8&qid=1186809007&sr=1-1b) learn the terminology. Like any other activity/sport, sailing has its own vocabulary. More experienced sailors don't "talk sailor" just to appear "salty"for the girls at the dockside bar. There WILL be times when you want something specific done, grabbed, cleated, uncleated or cut, and issuing the wrong instruction could cause even more problemsc) make sure you have the proper safety gear aboard and know how to use it. It makes good sense (it's also the law)d) IMHO, a beam reach is a good point of sail for new sailors because you can sail back and forth all day without drifting downwind. Getting back to your starting point is easy. You can also slow or stop the boat at any time when sailing on a beam reach by simply easing sheets. Unlike sailing close-hauled, the boat cannot get into irons. Simply sheet in and you're under way again.e) MANY sailors (even experienced ones) oversheet their sails. Here's a simple guide when sailing on any point of sail from close-hauled to a broad reach: Ease the sheet until the sail starts luffing, then sheet in until the luffing JUST stops. It's that simple. If you want to take it one step further, tie a telltale on the leech of your mainsail at each batten. When the sail is properly trimmed, the lower telltales will stream straight back.f) Sails aren't the Showtime Rotisserie, you shouldn't "set it and forget it". In most places, wind speed and direction don't remain constant for long. Small adjustments in sail trim are needed to keep the boat on a steady course.g) your tiller is your friend. If you are fighting with it to stay on course, it means your sails aren't properly trimmed.h) excessive heel is not cool, nor is it fast or comfortable. Yeah, I said it. Fifteen degrees is about it for most boats.h) If you don't know the specific meanings of any of the terms I used in this post, see a) and b) above.i) have fun.PeterH23 "Raven"