Nomenclature
Relax, your mast raising bridle is just fine. The fitting that goes into the mast is angled, and that's a pelican hook at the other end. The toggles that are being discussed are the ones at the boat end of the shrouds, not the fittings (which I suppose could be called toggles, too) at the mast end. On my Hunter 26, the top threaded part of the turnbuckle is swaged to the shroud. It is threaded into the turnbuckle body, from whose bottom emerges the lower threaded part. The lower threaded part ends in a "T" which fits through a slot in a U shaped piece of flat stainless steel. There is a clevis pin through the arms of the U (which is upside down, so it looks more like a rounded A with the middle bar removed). The clevis pin also passes through a round upside down U which emerged from the hull and is presumably attached to the chain plates. The T and two U's act like a universal joint, permitting movement along two perpendicular axes. When you raise the mast, there is a satisfying moment when the mast seats and the shrouds pop into full tension. If any of these moving parts get jammed out of position, the final tensioning will warp or bend something. That something must be replaced or mast failure is inevitable.As for anything easier for raising the mast, let me know if you find anything -- maybe there's Viagra for spars!