NEVER heat a hose to bend it further than it will bend willingly! That will result in a tear in the skin on the outside of the radius and can result in a kink. Instead, break the hose and insert a 90 or 45 radius (not a sharp elbow) fitting. You'll find that this is actually easier than trying to force a hose around a bend...'cuz instead of wrestling with the hose, you're simply connecting two ends to a fitting.
Any time a hose will be under stress if pulled to one side or up or down, break it and install a radius fitting instead. If you're coming directly off the toilet or tank, replace a straight fitting with a 90 or 45. 'Cuz a hose that doesn't come straight off a fitting is almost guaranteed to leak...if not immediately, sooner or later.
Chris, my offer to help you get this project done right the first time remains open...all you need to do is send me an email.