Not crazy, inspired!
If you have the resources, do it. By all means, learn, listen, take it slow, be careful, but do it.There are all sorts of pratical reasons to buy a given boat, not a different boat, whatever. The reality of it is that they're all expensive, maintenance intensive, and sometimes a pain in the neck. They're also the most fun you can have, a gateway to otherwise in accessable opportunities, an arena for challenging both yourselves and your relationship, and the best therapy you can buy.Think about your perfect day on the water, or life on the water. Then start haunting boatyards, yacht clubs, mailing list, websites. Etc. Think about your personality and find boats that match. The guys at the dock with the BMW convertables tend to have racey boats. My little VW takes me to my little cruiser.Remember that the entry cost is only the beginning, and if the 30k is the total budget, save a good chunk of it. Always have a contingency fund for when something breaks and you'll be a lot less stressed when it does, and it will break. Ask every question you can think of. If you find someone is not repsonsive to your questions, ask someone else.Make sure that both of you become capable sailors. In many relationships, the husband is the skipper, but you will both have more fun if you become a true team. And a lot of what you learn on the water comes back with you on the land.You will get a lot of practical advice about boating, boat buying, sailing, maintenance, etc. Much of it is sage. You'll learn which was. My advice: if sailing gets you in the chest, and you can afford to risk the cash, do it. I doubt strongly you'll regret.But I think you already knew this. So really, I all I want to know is what boat you pick. Welcome to the party. Smooth seas and fair breazes.Justin - O'day Owner's Web